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Bill and Charlie, March 2013 |
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My brother's dog Buddy, March 2013 |
Who doesn't love dogs?
I have drawn a lot of dogs over the years, and continue to do more.
A dog is a companion in life and a keepsake afterward. Most of these drawings were gifts.
Because I just love 'em.
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Madison |
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Madison II ("Today's News") |
The Monkees, that fake TV rock group from the mid-1960s, once dropped
a loaf called "I'm Gonna Buy Me a Dog." It was a pretty simple tune,
went like this:
"I'm gonna buy me a dog [A dog, a dog! Why?]
'Cause I need a friend now. [Say, you need all the friends you can get]
I'm gonna buy me a dog,
My girl, my girl, don't love me no how."
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"Little Friends" |
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"Five Dogs" |
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Bella (another Bella ... ) |
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Gwen |
It was a silly song that appealed to the 6-year-old in me. Plus, it was
sung by the drummer (Mickey Dolenz). There was Monkee gibberish at the
end including one line that I thought asked the deep question: "Who
poops a pot full rambling?" Yeah. I used to belt that out round the
house, take it to school and do it in stores. My mother would yell, my
dad would agree with her -- and then he'd call my grandpa and they'd
crack up.
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Kate |
I could never have a dog when I was a child. Allergies. Allergy shots. Red eyes, wheezy breath, worried adults.
So I had turtles, frogs, rats and other small animals and shelved the dog desire for many years.
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Mandy |
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Maddie and Tobey |
Then, one summer vacation, when my daughters were preschoolers, I
just went and got a dog from a woman in Newton Falls. His name was Sam, a
lab-shepherd mix. And I took Allegra and Benadryl and Claritin and
God-knows-what-else for a year until I stopped sneezing.
It was worth every drip.
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Emily, Kara and Sam |
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Copper |
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Ripleys |
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Jiggs |
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Corleone |
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Hank |
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Bella and Corly |
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Chloe |
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Gracie |
I have since had three dogs, and I talked to them all.
That's right.
We talk, as in actual, deep one-on-ones. Usually at night, in the back yard, where no one can hear me and think I'm nuts.
It really makes perfect sense.
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Remington |
Dogs are great listeners. They are in permanent "Uh-huh, Yep" mode. There's enough space between those big reflective eyes and radar ears to comprehend what you're saying. They don't argue, they don't judge.
Dogs can keep secrets.
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Emily and Corleone |
And every now and again, they give you an answer. A solution to whatever human mess you've tripped over.
Because dogs are not weighed down by human baggage, their responses are simple and direct, communicated by a wag, a nuzzle, eyebrows, paws on your person or a bark.
"Sounds good." "Do that." "Cool." "It'll get better." "Love you, too."
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Hank and Bella |
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Corly and Bella |
What were my dogs Bella and Hank, and, later, Corly and Bella, saying to each other here, in these pictures? Probably something fleeting, insignificant -- saving the big signals for me.
A dog's time with us is short, 8 to 12 years I'd say, because they burn so much life absorbing what we're unloading on them. Dogs are like shock absorbers for people. It takes a toll.
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Corly. Balls. |
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Odie |
There's an immeasurably painful, crushing and suffocating weight when they die and that reliable sounding board goes away.
How can we reason through life without our canine confidants?
I don't have the answer for that. That's also why I have two of 'em.
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Roxanne |
Here are a few more, and there are others out there -- always listening.
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Mocha |
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Bailey |
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Carly and Bella |
A selection of favored canines.
Can I draw your best friend?
hankbonesman@embarqmail.com or willstom01@gmail.com
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"The Waiting Dog" |
Great post. I remember "I'm Gonna Buy Me a Dog" well. I liked the British accent rambling at the end of the song. "If I was going to describe what I was going to buy it would be dog. Dog. It would come springing from my lips. Dog." And I talk to my dog, too.
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